Being Emotionally Real

What is like to be raw and vulnerable and to be held in kindness while feeling something real like that?

It is interesting when one begins the journey of self-discovery.

I remember even as a little girl wondering about why didn’t I feel connected any longer to other people.  Being an identical twin, it seemed only natural that we would all feel and see and think similar things.   Not—:) But I do remember at one point getting interested in ESP.  Yet nobody seemed to talk about such things in the mainstream at the time.  So I became like many others, loosing touch with my deeper sense of connection.

Then when I hit my early 30’s, I began to wonder again those basic questions that I think touch many people:  Who AM I?  Why am I here?  What is my purpose?  Again,  I did not find many others who spoke about such things.  Was it because I was a Pisces, a sensitive and creative woman?

But then I picked up a book, called Hands of Light,  written by Dr. Barbara Brennan and felt a whoosh of ah ha.  There are other people in the world who are aware of energy and connection in its more subtle forms.  I really wanted to go to school right then and there, but I had young children, so I waited.  At some point, it did all come together, and the stars aligned so that I might go.  That school for me was a place for me so sacred and profound.  I faced my deepest fears, touched into places I never imagined in my mind and heart.  At the same time,  I found it very difficult.  I wanted my teachers to fit into my “picture of God” pure, peaceful, compassionate and wise.  And they did carry some of these aspects, but they were humans just like me.  With their own flaws and unconscious conditioning.  So I struggled, I fought, and I cried.  At this wonderful school of healing, there was still so much conflict and pain for me.  Things left unhealed in them, and things left unhealed in me.  But I wouldn’t have changed a thing as they were my guides to the next level of awakening.  They laid the foundation for me to be in better relationship.  They gave me the space and time to feel raw and dark, love and hate, and peace at such a level I had never known before.  I was attached, but I had to leave.  I departed with some incredible new friends spread across the globe and such mentors to help me on my way.  One who held me close and saved me from myself more than once.  Eventually I would teach and I still supervise students.  I love the work that I learned there.

Next I moved into my Hakomi training.  It was gentle approach from a psychotherapy perspective in mindfulness.  The work itself, like the Brennan Science was amazing.  Yet even within this quiet and easy container, I felt rage and anger.  And wouldn’t you know it, a person from my Brennan Graduate class showed up who I didn’t feel comfortable with, who kept triggering me into my darkness.  I loved the work, but I was always challenged.  And in all this time, I found some of the instructors to be kind and understanding, and others judging me for feeling so unedited.  Was there any place that I could be “real”?

Bert Hellinger’s work caught my eye.  I studied there for a while.  Learned about family order and lineage healing.  Profound and touching our lives on a soul level.

Afterwards,  I went into the school SPI for Trauma Training.  I expected the founder of the school to be teaching as was advertised.  That is why I signed up.  But she took ill.  A new teacher arrived and I felt so disappointed.  Oh- my raw stuff again. But I learned new tools, I processed my “stuff” and away I went with another “tic” under my belt.

If that wasn’t enough, I decided to delve into the Upledger Institute’s work and found myself finally happy with a basic curriculum that focused on the physiological.  It took me some type to develop my work, but I loved trusting the “Inner Physician” within my clients and just enjoyed riding the waves.  Well, then as I advanced, I started getting more involved in the SER (SomatoEmotional Release) part of the curriculum.  Well, you guessed it… in the group my deep feelings seeped right out again.  Only this time, the holding was more dear.  Not quite enough though.  While I looked for someone on the outside to help me, I continued to have a small piece that kept on suffering.

Next stop on the journey, I decided to visit the Byron Katie School for 9 days.  Now this was a shift.  No bullshit and no Ego teaching here.  Each person was taught how to ask 4 basic questions to then turn around in order to find our own answers.  Any feelings I felt were mine.  Nobody else to blame as all there was were the questions and my mind.  What a relief.  Taking responsibility for how I felt and created.  With each of these teaching,  I stepped out of my box and expanded and grew.

Last stop was on a farm in Northern Ohio.  I studied with Jackie Stevenson with her horses to learn about equine self-discovery.  This was my final destination to truly find inner peace.  She held a position of such quiet unconditional love.  She took no glory from the healing and growth there.  She put the onus on each of us to have our own experience.  There was no judgement from any of the participants that I could see.  All egos left at the door.  So good to be free to cry to say whatever was on my mind, and to stop hiding all that I judged within me.  The horses were magical and everything was perfect there for the first time in my life.

Now I have a farm.  I work with my horses and other animals.  I have also worked with www.integrativeintentions.com in their dolphin program.  I have taken everything that I have learned from all these great places and applied them to my life.  I now can say, that I let life and every moment teach me.  I have let go of wanting other people to give me what I longed for because I know that it is already here.  I have felt raw and I have felt deep.  But now those feelings feel so much softer and easier.  Not saying that I no longer have my distortions or masks.  But my tool box is full.  My heart is full.  And my brain understands things with much more clarity.  I can live real as me now.

With all of this said and done,  it is freeing being more real and authentic.  There are prices to pay for coming out of your shell.  People might rebel or leave you, but you will find yourself.  I believe that is why we are here.  To remember that God is right here inside and that we are the creative aspects of love embodied.  It doesn’t mean ignoring your rawness, but it does mean allowing things to be as they are and to progress and they need in their own time.  So be with the moment. Explore your relationships and grace will help you to uncover your greatness and essence.  The journey is a wave.  Ride it.  Be it.  And know that while this earthy world is temporary, that love is not.  Something deeper is calling us all home.  That something is real.

Sharon Hartnett LMT

Columbus, Ohio

740 966-5153

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Breathing Well with Massage

Breathing Well with Massage

By learning to breathing well,  people can learn how to calm themselves and feel more energized.

Many people who often feel stressed or anxious are prone to holding their breath.  When this becomes an unconscious pattern, the movement around the ribcage can become dehydrated and stuck. This is unhealthy because it can impair physiological functioning of the body.  The good news is that this can change!

By bringing mindfulness to your breathing throughout the day, you might find yourself surprised as to how often you stop breathing.  At the same time, by just bringing your awareness to the breath and how the chest moves, you can improve things by learning about yourself and how you are internally organized.  So mindfulness is a great beginning to understand the relationship between breathing and stress.

If you want to further let go of any restrictions around the upper chest and diaphragm, then getting some good therapeutic myofascial therapy can do wonders.  The web of fascia that surrounds your body and envelopes all the individual organs, muscles, bones and other parts of your body can be restored back to health.  Specifically, the areas that need to be released in order to enhanced breathing health are the neck, thoracic diaphragm, intercostal back muscles, abdomen and chest.  Lengthening and opening up these areas can help you to live with more ease.

 

Breathing Easier

Breath easier with Massage

 

Often when I work with my clients, I like to introduce them to a breathing meditation during the session.  This has shown to be quite helpful in helping clients to relax, especially while working to let go of the adhesions or tight holding.  Starting with helping broad areas to soften and release, and then, releasing ribs and bones-clients are amazed at how much more space they discover to breath.  In addition,  by working with SomatoEmotional Release techniques, clients will feel things like fear letting go as the parasympathetic system starts to bring more calm after the initial wave.

Get in touch with your body sense to heal.  Your body knows what it needs and will show the way to any massage therapist who knows how to listen well.

Sharon Hartnett CST, LMT, SI, BHSP

740 966-5153

Columbus, Ohio

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

 

Craniosacral and Tools for Foot Pain

Craniosacral and Tools for Foot Pain

Foot Pain: As we get older,  we pick up certain habitual patterns that contribute to how we feel and move.

Personally I have had issues with my right foot for years from a childhood sprain and twisting. The best I felt was about 20 years ago after going through a Rolfing 10 series.  After we finished,  I remember feeling so great and actually standing taller that I decided to study Structural Integration (SI) myself.  For years now, I have been doing SI work and I have seen miraculous changes with my clients. But since I have integrated Craniosacral Therapy, some Feldenkrais that I learned and a few basic tools into my daily practice and table work, I have shared these concepts in order to help others.  I like to see people get better!

So here is what helps me and my clients:

  1. Structural Integration helps the whole body come into alignment.  Myofascial relationships shift and work more efficiently with gravity.
  2. Craniosacral Therapy (CST)  relieves dysfunctional issues in the cranium and brain, and also with the fascia.  In addition, it helps to enhance fluidity around the joints and in the tissues and to support a nervous system that helps clients to feel balanced and more vitalized.
  3. The below tools have helped me too and give me a sense of self-empowerment to change.

 

Red Ballrelieving foot painfoam roller

 

The roller, red ball and Yamuna foot fitness tools can be used daily to break up old patterns in the feet.  But this goes way beyond just the foot.  As the tension there begins to melt, the tissues going up the leg and trunk change too.  You will start to feel your hips changing and your posture relaxing.  Use your daily practice as medicine, and I invite you to go out on a limb and find some good bodyworkers to facilitate.

Good-Bye to Foot Pain!

Blessed day and blessed feet to you!

Sharon Hartnett LMT, CST, SI & Brennan Healing Practitioner

740 966-5153

Columbus, Ohio

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

Chronic Pain Relief

Chronic Pain Relief

If you are still looking for chronic pain relief… you have probably already tried many conventional means to no avail.

How about giving yourself a new option with Cranosacral Therapy?

Craniosacral Therapy (CST)  offers a gentle, yet effective method that releases tension deep in the body. Over time,  CST’s effects can be expansive and life changing.  By listening deeply to the body’s Central Nervous System’s physiological processes through subtle palpation, a CST therapist can find and treat misalignments, chronic pain areas, sore muscles and nerve pain conditions.  Craniosacral Therapy has also been known to help with conditions like: Fibromyalgia, MS, migraines, sports injuries, neck and back pain, along with others acquired from trauma based accidents or experiences.

A good article from one of Upledger’s teacher for more information that I recommend in Massage Magazine is:  http://www.massagetoday.com/mpacms/mt/article.php?id=13489

I have found that clients who only partially recovered with general massage have found longer lasting pain relief with CST.  Just Recently,  a new client after about 5 sessions excitedly told me that her body was feeling “great”.   I know from her intake that this was a huge shift. The reason for this is that rather than focusing mostly on the muscles, the CST therapist is dialoguing with the internal wisdom of the brain, spinal cord, and surrounding tissues and cerebrospinal fluid.  By doing this, the intelligence within can be expressed to promote health and wellbeing.

Pain Relief

Pain Relief

 

The body returns to it inherent self-correcting healing abilities by being supported by healthier fluid dynamics, structural integration and optimal CNS functioning.

If you are looking for something that can help you relax and rest better or on the opposite spectrum create more energy and vitality,  this might be your best alternative. Through its balancing effects,  clients often walk away feeling refreshed, more grounded, and pain-free.

Sharon Hartnett CST, LMT, SI, Brennan Healing Science

(740) 966-5153

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

 

Arthritis Pain Management

Arthritis Pain Management

Arthritis Pain…Are your joints becoming inflamed causing chronic pain and fatigue?

Keeping an open mind to various treatments for arthritis can be your best bet.

There are many articles online about natural remedies to take such as Sam-E, creams, Magnesium,  along with conventional medicines that are aggressive and have side effects, etc… but have you heard of Craniosacral Therapy?

Craniosacral Therapy (CST) is so gentle that practically any person is able to receive the work and feel better.  It is based on the principle of listening to the body’s own internal resources for direction that know how to help maintain and repair damage.

In my office,  I have often combined myofascial release techniques along with CST with amazing results.  I had one woman recently who could hardly turn her neck, and could barely get through the night with a full night’s rest. Her medical history with a disk replacement was just the beginning to her ongoing pain. For years she had suffered miserably.  In just a few sessions, she is feeling much better rested, and pain free.  She told me she feels like she has a new body.

Honestly, I don’t take credit for this.  It is her self-correcting inner source mechanisms that know how to heal.  I just help her to tap into that so that health and wellbeing is restored.

arthritis

arthritis

Two Main Areas to Work to alleviate arthritis pain:

Fascia:  Releasing restrictions in the fascia can help the body to let go of stress and tension, while increasing better circulation and energy flow.  As has been more recently discovered, the fascia tissue is a fundamental communicator in the body,  The more fluid and hydrated the tissue, the healthier the body is in relaying messages.  Tissues and body systems that work together stay resilient and recover quickly as the tissues slide freely next to each other.  Fascia is also like a web that wraps around the body and contains throughout.  If one spot in the body is brought out of alignment, it pulls from other area.  Compensation soon leads to dysfunction longterm if not treated.  Connective Tissue Massage can be very beneficial for this type of pattern.  It’s important to remember that fascia is also key in keeping structure, but also in promoting flexibility.  Exercising, Fascial Therapy and moving multi-dimensionally will keep you feeling healthy and optimally.  Working with a Structural Integration Therapist, CST or a Rolfer can really change how you move and feel.

Craniosacral System:  The Craniosacral System is a Semi-closed hydraulic system. The membranes and fluid that surround the brain and the spine contribute to the protection and the nourishment of the nervous system.  Since the Central Nervous System controls the rest of the body,  it is a key area to work with to address dysfunction and ill health.  A Craniosacral Therapist works with the bones and the fluid to help the body to reconnect to its own Inner Physician. The cebrospinal fluid is created in cycles and reabsorbed continuously , but do balance out. So we work with following and supporting symmetrical and powerful flexion and extension cycles during these rises and falls is essential to good overall health..

Between the fascia and the CST,  we can feel into holding and restrictive patterns easily through the whole body.  The combination releases area where the muscles and joints are tight, allowing more mobility and ease in the body.

For more information, please feel free to call Sharon Hartnett at (740) 966-5153 for a 15 minute phone consult.

Arthritis pain can be helped through diet choices, herbs, movement, good rest and medicines to say the least.  Why not add some manual bodywork to deepen your potential to heal?

Sharon Hartnett LMT, CST, SI

703 509-1792

www.upledger.com

www.cranioscraltherapistcolumbus.com

 

 

Headache Relief with Craniosacral Therapy

Headache Relief with Craniosacral Therapy

There are a number of different kinds of headaches that affect millions of people.

If you are one of those people who often gets headaches, your days may becoming difficult to face. It’s probably time to start researching your symptoms and take some positive actions to resolve your pain!

Headache relief

Headache Relief

 

Common symptoms of headaches you may experience are:

Muscle Aches
Pain
Difficulty resting and sleeping
Paleness
Difficulties Concentrating
Nausea
Blurred Vision

What could you do to help be proactive against headaches?

  • Apply Warm and Cold Compresses.
  • Check your diet and notice if there are any trigger foods.
  • Take a warm shower.
  • Meditate
  • Stretch
  • Rest your eyes periodically throughout the day
  • Apply some essential peppermint oil on a cotton ball and inhale
  • See your physician

A Professional Can Help You Too!

Craniosacral Therapy is deeply relaxing and it is very helpful in relieving fascial stress patterns that may contribute to headaches. The work actively engages the nervous system and helps tension to melt around the head in a way that brings about peacefulness and rejuvenation.

Often, for people experiencing profound pain, the tissues are taut and closely wrapped up adhering on both superficial  and deep levels in the body. Certain structures within the head and body may be jammed up. Working with a seasoned Professional Craniosacral Therapist will most likely be very beneficial in releasing these patterns and allowing more freedom and movement in the body.

Sharon Hartnett LMT, SI, CST

Columbus, Ohio    (740) 966-5153

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

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