The Great and Undervalued Skill of Listening
The Power of Listening
Transform Your Relationships
Embrace the skill of Listening. In our fast-paced world, where distractions are everywhere, truly bringing your attention to someone else has become a rare gift. Yet, mastering the art of good listening can enhance every area of your life—from personal relationships to professional success. Although honestly, good communication skills begins with you. It takes intentionality and practice to be a good listener. Let’s dive into why becoming a better listener is one of the most valuable skills you can develop.
1. Builds Stronger Relationships
Good listening fosters deeper connections. Not only does listening help you gather information that can teach you, but it also includes the other person/people in the relationship. It builds connection. It builds a sense of wellbeing within yourself and with others.
2. Boosts Career and Business Success
Want to stand out in your career? Be a great listener. Good listening skills put you at the head of the game. In addition, it helps you build work teams and achieve business goals creatively and with success.
3. Enhances Problem-Solving and Decision-Making
When you listen well, you gather accurate and clear information, leading to better decision-making. Many problems arise from misunderstandings, but active listening helps you identify core issues and find effective solutions faster.
4. Improves Emotional Intelligence
Listening is a cornerstone of emotional intelligence (EQ). When you learn to take in another without judgment, you become more empathetic and aware of others’ emotions. This improves social interactions and makes you a more compassionate and respected individual.
5. Reduces Stress and Miscommunication
Poor listening leads to misunderstandings, stress, and unnecessary conflicts. By fully focusing on conversations, you ensure clear communication, reducing confusion and tension in both personal and professional settings.
How to Become a Better Listener
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Be Present – Put away distractions and give the speaker your full attention.
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Use Active Listening Techniques – Nod, maintain eye contact, and reflect back what you hear.
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Ask Thoughtful Questions – Show genuine curiosity and seek to understand before responding.
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Avoid Interrupting – Let the other person finish before sharing your thoughts.
Final Thoughts
If you are finding that you are missing out in conversations, or have developed your listening skills on a deep level, you can develop it and practice through self-awareness and tracking. Sharon Hartnett CST-D is Diplomate Certified Craniosacral Therapist, and also practices energy healing and transformation, along with Hakomi. With close to 30 years of working in her private practice, she offers sessions that focus on listening on different levels. Call for a free 15 free consultation to find out more.
Sharon Hartnett CST-D
703 509-1792
www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com