Loving the Silence of the Heart

Loving the Silence of the Heart

Discover the Power of Silence

The absence of sound. Stillness. Quiet.  There is such a rich quality of life that is found when we stop talking. It’s a black velvet void. It’s peace of mind. Yet, silence can’t quite accurately be described in words.  Words are too limiting.  The best way I suppose, simply put, it’s an experience of nothingness.

To discover silence,  although nothing can take us directly there really.  There are guidepost points  that can make helpful suggestions.  Here is a list of 5 things I recommend.

1.  Mindfulness.  Mindfulness is practiced by each person indiviudally.  To begin though, it’s wise to bring the attention of awarness inward. Bring your open attention to the present moment in a “listening” mode.  With an intention of open awareness, the quiet has an entrance point to come to you.

2.  Go out into nature. Being outside gives us an aesthetic sense of the the beauty of life.  It also allows us to quiet down into silence to observe the natural order of life as well.  With the different moments, different seasons, we witness the cycles of life from birth to death. This can be a great learning experience. It can also bring forth spiritual transcendence experiences, along with joy and wonder.  Also, being out in nature can make us feel more safe in our emodiment because of the deep meanings we find in the silence of nature.

3. Breathing.  Breathing is at the core of keeping us alive. There is something so intrinsicly important about being connected to our breath.  The best way to help us reduce stress is to breathe naturally.  If you breathe shallow, breathe shallow.  Visa Versa, if you breathe deeply, breathe deeply.  Observe the experience of the breath without alterning.  However, if the breath change on it’s own accord, be with the change.  The breath takes us deep into the core of silence.  Trust in the breath!

4.  Stop talking for a certain amount of time each day.  Sciecne has actually shows that this can help nourish brain cells.

5.  Art.  Expressing ourselves through art can be a very quiet endeavor.  Finding our creative wave and allowing it to move through us,  quiets the mind, and bursts forth expressions of life’s experience.  The more immersed we are, the deeper rooted we can become in the engagement of the dance of silent exploration.

Silence is an experience of nourishment.  I think that when we stop the busyness and give ourselves some space to be, that the rest in silence is so vitally important to our health and wellbeing. Yet so often overlooked in our daily schedules.

Be kind to yourself.  Balance out your list of “to do” things with some empty quiet time.  You’ll feel better. You’ll feel more rested.  You may find yourself actually feeling more full in the emptiness.  When the mind quiets, the heart sings.

Sharon Hartnett CST-D

703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

6797 N. High St. #333 Worthington, Ohio 43085

 

How to Change with Ease: Craniosacral Therapy

How to Change with Ease: Craniosacral Therapy

Change Opens Doors…

Do you want to change and get “Unstuck”?  If you do, that big scary thing is going to happen.  Life is going to shift and the ground is going to crumble. Nothing stays the same forever. Life is a constant “happening”.   Deep down, you know that!

Do you ever remember having the feeling that you were caught in a loop? Or maybe a spiral?  It’s that deja vu feeling that you have already lived the dynamic in which you are now repeating.  It gets so old at some point.

So often, we individuals, find ourselves resisting “change”. We fight it.  We yell.  We scream. We run. Anything to stay in the familiar. We protect the past, and refuse to be in the present.  What a crazy thing for us to do.  Right?

The challenge is that our brains are wired this way. We are animals, looking for safety and to meet our basic needs until they are fully met.  Our thoughts of trust and grounding need to be strong in order for us to trust and to let go of the conflict between “change” and “static”.

If you don’t have a compassionate and nurturing past, it makes it much harder to deal and interact from the present “Now”.  Yet it’s never too late to change course.  If you are tired of playing the same story over and over, question your thoughts.  Pray.  Meditate. Find a Therapist or a Friend to get new perspective.

Change is always here with us.  A friend, an opportunity, a gift.  We never get bored with change.  Yet most of us have to find a way to navigate through the ease of change to get to the other side.

About 20 years ago, I moved the focus of my work into Craniosacral Therapy (CST).  I found more than anything,  CST brought me back inward to help me discover the core of myself.  I learned to trust my body, and my other internal and external processes by calming my nervous system, and also by receiving nourishing touch and melding with healthy boundaries.

I have been working for close to 30+ years in the field of healing.  Never have I felt so focused and grounded, and at the same time free and open.  As the body receives new information the old unwinds and opens doors to a deeper connection to Self and to others.  Embraced change brings vulnerability, but it also blesses us with embodied power and love.

If you’d like to find out how Craniosacral Therapy can help you navigate through resistence and change,  look for a Somato Emotion Release Therapist near you.  www.upledger.com

Sharon Hartnett CST-d

703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

6797 N. High St. #333 Worthington, Ohio 43085

Grounding:  7 Fun Ways to Start Your Day Afresh

Grounding: 7 Fun Ways to Start Your Day Afresh

What is Grounding?

In all the years I have been doing healing work, whether energetic or geared toward embodiment, I have heard a lot of talk about grounding.  But what the heck does that word, “grounding” mean?

In current times, grounding means reconnecting to the earth’s electric energy. I have often read and observed that when done properly, grounding can help calm anxiety and stress.  As a Craniosacral Therapist, while I am sitting at the feet of a person who comes into awareness of their body, it’s easy to sense their ” grounded presence’ down to the toes.  It feels very integrated, and full.

Here are a few ideas you can try to have your own experience of grounding:

1.  Breathe into your body with awareness. Mindfulness wakes up the body communication between the brain and the rest of yourself. Start by breathing in your head, and work downward until you embrace the sensation down to your toes.

2.  Walk barefoot outside.  I know that when I walk outside, I feel my feet being supported by the earth.  I listen to what the earth sounds to me, and it feels so structured, nourishing and strong.  It’s great!

3.  With loose wrists, do percussion slapping lightly around your whole body.  It’s sort of like cupping very quickly to a rhythm.  It’s stirs the nervous system into attention.

4.  Jump into some water.  Either a shower, bath or a pool.  Soak and feel the sensations.  Water can help us to feels refreshed and awake.

5.  Play with your dog or cat.  Animals are naturally grounded.  Interacting with them can bring such joy and groundedness.

6.  Jump rope or jump on a small trampoline, or sit on a bounce ball.  All of these help to connect the feet and legs to the earth.  Of course waking up our lower part of our bodies well.

7.  Dancing:  Anything that is done through movement with the body can be very grounding.  It’s fun, creative and opens us up to the more physical parts of ourself.

I can’t tell you how many times people lose their connection to the ground, especially as they get older.  It’s important to connect to the physical part of our being.  It helps us to feel like the earth is here to provide us with what we need.  It helps us to trust in life.

So when you are feeling afraid, or stressed.  Set your intention to reconnect again by grounding.  Make it a daily practice.  Notice how much more secure and happy you feel.  Pull yourself up from your bootstraps and take off!

Sharon Hartnett CST-D

703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

6797 N. High St. #333. Worthington, Ohio 43085

 

How to Live Well With a Positive Intention of Mutual Connection

How to Live Well With a Positive Intention of Mutual Connection

Connection

Human Mutual Connection

Connection is so important. You know that you were never meant to be alone, right?  Not in your life. With close to 8 billion people on the planet, there are too many of us to ignore or to be totally isolated unless very difficult circumstances lock you up.

Isolation though can feel brutal.  When you feel cut off from resources,  that can feel painful.  Right?

There are an estimated 4 million teenagers who are depressed. 280 million people across the globe. People who feel this way don’t usually feel supported and nurtured in their relationships. We have to start considering how this can be when we are surrounded by so many beautiful humans and such a grand planet.

As a Craniosacral Therapist and Energy Healer for close to 30 years, I have seen many people who are full of anxiety, depressed and really struggling.  As a manual bodyworker, it’s not my job to be a psychotherapist. Although I have a 2 year Hakomi Training background (body centered psychotherapy), Somato Emotional Release training and Trauma Training.  With all the people I have met, my education and experience has taught me how to listen and support a person when feelings come into a session.  It’s clear to me that we have to make more of an effort to help each other feel, “in connection”.

It is vital that we feel connected to ourselves first, and then also to others.  We are part of an interconnected web of life.  Nothing escapes us, and we don’t escape life- even when we try.

So to feel connected, we have to bring our awareness to ourselves. It behooves us to question and discover,  “Who Am I”?.  Next we have to ask how to connect to our deeper resources and qualities.  Breathe into our cells and wake up the Inner Wisdom.  Thereafter, as we discover what’s inside, we can begin to take new actions to build connections that are meaninful.  Facilitaton with an experienced guide is very helpful.

As a Craniosacral Therapist, I do this by helping people connect most often internally through the Craniosacral System. This is so nourishing to the nervous system.  Quite often people deeply relax and feel more whole and full.

Usually people tell me that this therapy helps them. Whether they are quiet during a session or when they talk- this works help them to form healthier relatioships in many areas of their lives.  When they find and anchor into their deepest calm and they feel free to process through manual bodywork, great shifts can happen.

I love doing Craniosacral Therapy Work.  It’s the way I help in the world. Also, I want to encourage others to make fresh efforts to make a connection with someone new.  Especially if that person is always alone or needs help.  We all need each other really.  What a great difference we can make on this planet if we cared a little bit more and made a postitive heart centered effort.

Sharon Hartnett CST-D
703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

6797 N. High St. #333

Worthington, Ohio 43031

 

Breathe: Easy Fix to Feel Better.

Breathe: Easy Fix to Feel Better.

Breathe Through It. An Easy Way to Begin Self-Care

Some people have to work three jobs to make things work. They hardly have the time to breathe or think about “Self-Care”.  Others are focused on Success and they keep pushing theselves past many personal boundaries until they are stressed and  exhausted.  Then there are those who just never learned that relaxation and rest is “Needed” and “Essential” to staying healthy.

We live in a society that is all about the “push”. Of course there is a place for this.  However, there is also the other side to this equation. There needs to be a place where and when it’s just fine to do nothing but breathe and take a break. A long and luxurious moment of “nothing”.  We also need to find a way to build healthy relationships with friends and family.  Life is meant to be enjoyed.

Our bodies can revve up too much though and our nervous system takes a hit.  Eventually excess stress can lead to sleeping trouble, lack of focus, skickness and headaches,  and chronic pain.  The list goes on.

If you are reading this, perhaps you are one of those people who feel like your nervous system has forgotten how to calm down.  Perhaps you feel like you have no options but to work work work. There’s too many things that must be done.

I’l like to suggest that taking moments, precious moments with mindful care can be a good beginning.  If you are running around on high drive, take a moment every hour to go inward and breathe through your nose.  Begin to connect with yourself over prioritizing everything that must be done. Mindfulness in the moment can nourish and remind you of  your true life work. It helps to awaken the resources and interconnection  inside and out. It may remind you that there is another reality possible where you can move through life more easily and with support.

Once you have established a positive habit of breathing with awareness and centering, start to extend that time longer and longer. Thereafter, begin to notice how things in your life begin to change. Taking care of yourself is an inside job, and all this takes is intention. When we take the time, as a priority, to get centered, things change. Believe it or not, each and every one of us holds wisdom and life purpose.  Begin by giving yourself the gift of time and self-realization. Empowerment begins by knowing yourself.  .

Breathe and Boost Your mood and Deepen into Relaxation.

Sharon Hartnett CST-D
703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

6797 N. High St. #333

Worthington, Ohio 43085

 

 

 

 

 

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Wake Up Your Mindful Authentic Sense of Self.

Wake Up Your Mindful Authentic Sense of Self.

Increase Your Authentic Self-Awareness…

Kind of an odd Meme Picture Below about Being Yourself  by being Authentic.  However, it sort of touched me today. How many times do we take on roles or present ourselves differently in order to keep attachments? When is this healthy, and when is it not?

After practicing Hakomi for so long with my clients, I have entered into the jive of staying “mindful” on a daily basis. It’s the best way I know to live in my passion and to understand my deepest dynamic Self.

What “mindfulness” means to me is bringing awareness to my personal experience. Observing the happening of the moment this way helps me to be more clear, and more aligned with the True Self.  It also helps me to navigate my response to life more easily.

This is so important because mindfulness gives us an enhanced toolbox so that we can interact with life in a more authentic way. We stop getting so wrapped up in what others think about us. Rather we make ourselves at home inside our own Self, changing and growing in more expansiveness and confidence.

If you find yourself entangled in a lot of dramas. If you feel lost sometimes. The key to finding your authentic self is through mindful exploration.  You can do this yourself easily by just practicing creating space for yourself.  You deserve this understanding and love.  You deserve to feel anchored into the Center of your Being. Get Crazy. Have fun. Live your thread with wild abandonment!

Sharon Hartnett CST-D
Craniosacral Therapist & Visceral Manipulation 
703 509-1792
www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

6797 N. High St. #333 Worthington, Ohio 43085

 

 

 

 

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