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Remembering Your Life Purpose: Craniosacral Therapy

Find Your Life Purpose

Looking for a way to find a meaningful purpose in your life?  Before you can set your intention and organize, you have to figure out your passion!  Here are three things to consider which can help you deepen into clarity:

1.  Ask yourself what brought you joy when your were little?  Not necessarily your best talents, but instead-the things that brought a smile to your face.  On a soul level, right from the start we know what lights us up.  Until maybe someone perhaps tried to steer you off course based on their point of view. Take some time to meditate and remember who You are.  You were born with an internal roadmap for self-discovery and purpose. Now you need to discard anything that stops you from knowing your true Self.

2.  Craniosacral Therapy can help. Often in life, we get distracted with all the other paths put before us. We are told many stories, and pulled in so many directions. Sometimes, we forget what matters most to us. Reconnect to Yourself.

If you want to get grounded and feel more embodied, one helpful option is receiving Craniosacral Therapy. Many clients who come into my practice are stressed. Often I see people who are neurodivergent thinkers. Some are feeling lost, living with constant anxiety, and feeling stuck in learned limited belief systems which can rev up the nervous system. In vulnerable times, another “listening” support system can facilitate change and healing.

Craniosacral Therapy is very helpful in bringing health and balance to the mind, body and spirit connection.  For people feeling anxious and overwhelmed, they usually end up feeling much calmer after a session. For those who are stuck or noticing “ftozen blocks, this work can help mobilize and bring more flow into life.

Craniosacral Therapy is a safe and nurturing manual therapy.  In the higher levels of training, we are trained to support trauma release and integration of detrimental cellular memory.  We create sacred space for your body to inform us what is needed in the moment to move onward with more harmony and clarity. Knowing yourself naturally awakens your purpose and calling.

3.  Gather resources and take action.  How you decide to live in your passion is up to you.  It doesn’t have to look like anyone else. Your uniqueness and special creativity is meant for you to fly. It’s all about getting aligned with your energy to build the life that brings meaning and purpose to your soul.  Life is too short to live any other way.

Through life, we go through many different transitions. Being mildful and in healthy relationships brings ease as we move from one experience into another..Especially when your relationship to yourself is strong, clear and unfolding in a way that awakens your true longing. 

You came here to share your gifts with great purpose!

Sharon Hartnett CST-D
703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

 

Love is You and Love is Enough

Love is You and Love is Enough

Love

Love is Everything

When it comes to Love, have you ever questioned how much of our energy we put into convincing other people of our self-worth?  It’s so easy to want to get people to like us. It’s validating when they do.  However, it can hurt when our efforts pay no return.  Are you familiar with this life strategy?

This is a common theme for many.  “We hurt our own feelings by thinking we mean more to people than we really do”.  Such disappointment!  How in the world did our thinking arrive at such a conclusion to act this way towards ourselves?

It’s in our culture, it’s in our family lineages, in our belief institutions to put our energy out towards others first.  “Others are more important than ourselves.”  But it is a set up really.

Begin by being your own friend and Ally first. Unless we begin to come inward and find out who we really are, we will be slaves to the dynamic of putting others first, and wanting something badly in return.  The love we think we want isn’t’ “out there.”  It’s living inside of you.  You only need to find and discover this internally to stop hurting yourself.  Mindfulness is a good place to start.  Moving toward restoration of mind, body and spiritual alignment is grounding and fulfilling.

Now I am not saying that we shouldn’t care about each other.  We are all part of the interconnected web of life.  But we can’t afford to neglect ourselves at the expense of others.  It does us no good to demand from others what we won’t do for ourselves.  Fill your wine glass right up.  Take in pleasure and nourishment.  Love yourself enough to welcome joy into your heart.  Clear away the cobwebs and discover your own true nature and the rest of that flow has a bridge to stream out and from to clear a path to connect with others in a healthy way.

We all have love within simply through Being Who we are.

I recognize the love of all humanity within each human being.  Even if it’s not always clear.  The more I clear in myself though, the more clear I get in knowing this experientially in relationships.  I only know this because I know myself.  Get to know yourself too!  Love is you!

With love,

Sharon Hartnett CST-D
703 509-1792www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

How to Surround Yourself with Healthy People

How to Surround Yourself with Healthy People

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Prioritize Healthy Friendships

For people to survive and thrive, we need to build healthy relationships.  Social connection supports us in meeting our life needs and goals.  Putting effort into friendships can create a lifestyle that feels fulfilling and whole. In order to surround ourselves with healthy people, we need to put some intentional energy forward.

Benefits of Developing Deep Friendships:

  • Having a person in your life through the lows and the highs feels supportive and balancing.
  • Having a friend to mirror your core essence qualities helps you to remember you inner light.
  • Keeps us from feeling isolated and constantly alone.
  • Brings about emotional support.
  • Builds trust and a sense of security
  • Boosts Self-Esteems through acceptance and positive mirroring.
  • Offers companionship

There are so many other pluses, it’s hard to name them all.

So how do you meet and build healthy friendships?  

First ask yourself, “What do you find valuable in friendships”?  Each of us appreciate different qualities.  Continue with questions like, ” What does a friend mean to me?  In the past, what did you find comforting and worthwhile in relatioships?

Next, put yourself into action by going out into the world doing things which you enjoy.  Sometimes this feels like a risk, putting yourself out there, but it is well worth the while to feel connected and to share meaning in life.

Lastly when you add these two things together, it’s time to trust the process of building.  It’s an opportunity to blend, learn and grow.  How this happens it by choosing to focus on others.  Ask questions.  Listen.   Show interest.  Feel into what feel good to you.  Create healthy boundaries.  It’s an ondgoing process of deepening and understanding.

Healthy Friendships have a huge impact on our lives.  In an age of computers and texting, it takes effort to be social.  It takes effort to love.  However, surrounding yourself with healthy people will teach you so much about you, and it will nourish and bring many joys to your life.

Sharon Hartnett CST-D
703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

 

 

 

 

 

How To Grow In An Overwhelming World

How To Grow In An Overwhelming World

Sensitive Person

How to Grow as a Sensitive Person

Blossom and Grow. Recently, I picked up the book, “The Highly Sensitive Person and have been recommending it to quite a few of my clients. One niche that I seem to be able to support well are people who benefit from Craniosacral Therapy and Energy Work because the nervous systems of sensitive people often have been overwhelmed.

In this book, we find meaning, and an opportunity to grow,  in what it is like to be” highly sensitive“.  A term that not many people recognize.  On top of this aboug 80% of people are not sensitive, and they don’t understand the other 20%.  Can you imagine what it’s like to not have a description or understanding for how you sense the world, while most people are different?  I found reading this book to be  a relief since I include myself in this category. I felt noticed and acknowledged by the writer.  The book is such an in depth mirror.  I also felt more of a comfort level knowing that there are many more people walking around like me. Even if we are a minority.

One thing about highly sensitive people is that we notice the subtle and so many details.  I know for me, when I walk into a room, I can feel the mood.  I cue into expressions and movement, and so much information enters into my system.  Often because of this, we need to rest and take time for ourselves to integrate.  Craniosacral Therapy can respond to this need through its gentle listeing, touch and melding.

As Craniosacral Therapist, we listen to the Cerebrospinal fluid motion and we palpate and listen to the nervous system. By connecting with that with which we blend, we can bring in a calm and balance.  When this happens the deep creativity from within can emerge and grow.  It can be brought out into the world in a very positive way.

One of the challenges which highly sensitve people encounter is that when they feel overwhelmed, they tend to react.  Some people may view this as over-reacting.  This especially occurs if they grew up in a rough environment.  They tend to feel misunderstood.  However there are some wonderful advantages as well.  Lots of good exercises in this book.

The book recommends:

1. Self-Knowledge

2. Reframing

3. Healing

It also offers activities to help process intense feelings.  In addition Craniosacral Therapy can help a person through self- discovery work and self-regulation.  The book- I think that it is fantastic and opens the eyes to those who want to connect.

Sharon Hartnett CST-D

703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

How to Move Effortlessly Through Life

How to Move Effortlessly Through Life

Ease

Grounding:  Move Effortlessly with Grace

Move Effortlessly. It’s easy to escape the moment. To not be fully present. The mind easily wanders into the past with regrets and guilt. Undoubtably it moves forward with worry and anticipation as well. This is to be human.

However, what if there is a way to engage with life more deeply and fully?

I was reading FB today and came across a beautiful post about grounding.  I feel it’s so important to connect to the earth.  She supports us and nourishes us continuously.  We are made of the earth, and she lives within all that we are.  So I am including this writing by “Lowen”  to share here.  Let go of your burdens my friends…  Discover Your Human Body.

Lowen is credited with coining the word “grounding” in the physiological and psychological sense and emphasizing it’s importance in human development. I believe it has now become a term widely understood (if not precisely understood) in the broader pop culture.

“Once he is grounded, a person no longer holds himself up but allows the ground to support him. By coming down to earth, he finds that his blood pressure also drops. But effecting that kind of change requires a commitment to the body and to a way of life that respects the body and it’s needs.

 

Unfortunately, our culture is moving away from the body as the source of feeling and spirituality. Our fitness programs are not designed to enhance the sensitivity of the body but to hone it as if it were a machine. In so doing, they produce people who are fit only to run the race of life. I suppose that if reaching the top is one’s goal in life, our modern-day fitness programs may help. But if one’s goal is to experience the joy of being fully alive, the excitement of feeling part of this pulsating universe, and the deep satisfaction of being a person who is both graceful and gracious, one must turn elsewhere.

When I was a young man, being “earthy” was regarded as a virtue. I never hear anyone descibed that way anymore. Has the quality of having one’s feet on the ground lost its meaning? I believe it has. The modern individual is more properly described as “flying high and fast”. It is hard to slow down when the world is racing by. It is difficult to be grounded when the culture itself is ungrounded, when it denies reality and promotes an illusion that success represents a higher state of being and successful people live richer and more fulfilling lives. All the same, the real values of life are “earthy” values: health, gracefulness, connectedness, pleasure and love. But these values have meaning only if one’s feet are planted firmly on the ground.”

 

– Alexander Lowen from The Spirituality of the Body

To Move Effortlessly is freedom and Joy

Sharon Hartnett CST-D

703 509-1792
www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com