Being Emotionally Real

What is like to be raw and vulnerable and to be held in kindness while feeling something real like that?

It is interesting when one begins the journey of self-discovery.

I remember even as a little girl wondering about why didn’t I feel connected any longer to other people.  Being an identical twin, it seemed only natural that we would all feel and see and think similar things.   Not—:) But I do remember at one point getting interested in ESP.  Yet nobody seemed to talk about such things in the mainstream at the time.  So I became like many others, loosing touch with my deeper sense of connection.

Then when I hit my early 30’s, I began to wonder again those basic questions that I think touch many people:  Who AM I?  Why am I here?  What is my purpose?  Again,  I did not find many others who spoke about such things.  Was it because I was a Pisces, a sensitive and creative woman?

But then I picked up a book, called Hands of Light,  written by Dr. Barbara Brennan and felt a whoosh of ah ha.  There are other people in the world who are aware of energy and connection in its more subtle forms.  I really wanted to go to school right then and there, but I had young children, so I waited.  At some point, it did all come together, and the stars aligned so that I might go.  That school for me was a place for me so sacred and profound.  I faced my deepest fears, touched into places I never imagined in my mind and heart.  At the same time,  I found it very difficult.  I wanted my teachers to fit into my “picture of God” pure, peaceful, compassionate and wise.  And they did carry some of these aspects, but they were humans just like me.  With their own flaws and unconscious conditioning.  So I struggled, I fought, and I cried.  At this wonderful school of healing, there was still so much conflict and pain for me.  Things left unhealed in them, and things left unhealed in me.  But I wouldn’t have changed a thing as they were my guides to the next level of awakening.  They laid the foundation for me to be in better relationship.  They gave me the space and time to feel raw and dark, love and hate, and peace at such a level I had never known before.  I was attached, but I had to leave.  I departed with some incredible new friends spread across the globe and such mentors to help me on my way.  One who held me close and saved me from myself more than once.  Eventually I would teach and I still supervise students.  I love the work that I learned there.

Next I moved into my Hakomi training.  It was gentle approach from a psychotherapy perspective in mindfulness.  The work itself, like the Brennan Science was amazing.  Yet even within this quiet and easy container, I felt rage and anger.  And wouldn’t you know it, a person from my Brennan Graduate class showed up who I didn’t feel comfortable with, who kept triggering me into my darkness.  I loved the work, but I was always challenged.  And in all this time, I found some of the instructors to be kind and understanding, and others judging me for feeling so unedited.  Was there any place that I could be “real”?

Bert Hellinger’s work caught my eye.  I studied there for a while.  Learned about family order and lineage healing.  Profound and touching our lives on a soul level.

Afterwards,  I went into the school SPI for Trauma Training.  I expected the founder of the school to be teaching as was advertised.  That is why I signed up.  But she took ill.  A new teacher arrived and I felt so disappointed.  Oh- my raw stuff again. But I learned new tools, I processed my “stuff” and away I went with another “tic” under my belt.

If that wasn’t enough, I decided to delve into the Upledger Institute’s work and found myself finally happy with a basic curriculum that focused on the physiological.  It took me some type to develop my work, but I loved trusting the “Inner Physician” within my clients and just enjoyed riding the waves.  Well, then as I advanced, I started getting more involved in the SER (SomatoEmotional Release) part of the curriculum.  Well, you guessed it… in the group my deep feelings seeped right out again.  Only this time, the holding was more dear.  Not quite enough though.  While I looked for someone on the outside to help me, I continued to have a small piece that kept on suffering.

Next stop on the journey, I decided to visit the Byron Katie School for 9 days.  Now this was a shift.  No bullshit and no Ego teaching here.  Each person was taught how to ask 4 basic questions to then turn around in order to find our own answers.  Any feelings I felt were mine.  Nobody else to blame as all there was were the questions and my mind.  What a relief.  Taking responsibility for how I felt and created.  With each of these teaching,  I stepped out of my box and expanded and grew.

Last stop was on a farm in Northern Ohio.  I studied with Jackie Stevenson with her horses to learn about equine self-discovery.  This was my final destination to truly find inner peace.  She held a position of such quiet unconditional love.  She took no glory from the healing and growth there.  She put the onus on each of us to have our own experience.  There was no judgement from any of the participants that I could see.  All egos left at the door.  So good to be free to cry to say whatever was on my mind, and to stop hiding all that I judged within me.  The horses were magical and everything was perfect there for the first time in my life.

Now I have a farm.  I work with my horses and other animals.  I have also worked with www.integrativeintentions.com in their dolphin program.  I have taken everything that I have learned from all these great places and applied them to my life.  I now can say, that I let life and every moment teach me.  I have let go of wanting other people to give me what I longed for because I know that it is already here.  I have felt raw and I have felt deep.  But now those feelings feel so much softer and easier.  Not saying that I no longer have my distortions or masks.  But my tool box is full.  My heart is full.  And my brain understands things with much more clarity.  I can live real as me now.

With all of this said and done,  it is freeing being more real and authentic.  There are prices to pay for coming out of your shell.  People might rebel or leave you, but you will find yourself.  I believe that is why we are here.  To remember that God is right here inside and that we are the creative aspects of love embodied.  It doesn’t mean ignoring your rawness, but it does mean allowing things to be as they are and to progress and they need in their own time.  So be with the moment. Explore your relationships and grace will help you to uncover your greatness and essence.  The journey is a wave.  Ride it.  Be it.  And know that while this earthy world is temporary, that love is not.  Something deeper is calling us all home.  That something is real.

Sharon Hartnett LMT

Columbus, Ohio

740 966-5153

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Reiki Columbus Ohio

Reiki Columbus Ohio

Reiki is probably the most well known Energy Healing method in the US.

The reason for this is that Reiki is fairly easy to get an attunement for each of the first two levels with a week-end class.  No previous experience with energy healing is necessary.  Over 1 million people in the USA have received this ability transferred from Master Reiki teacher to student, so that they use Reiki on themselves or others as a healing modality.  Practitioners of Reiki often feel a deep sense of relaxation and healing.  The work is subtle and nourishing.

While I personally enjoy Reiki Treatments, I have found that there are many other schools of energy therapy out there that are quite supportive to the healing process as well.  After researching, I decided to attend the Barbara Brennan School of Healing. It is a 4 year college program based in Florida founded on the work of Dr. Barbara Brennan, author of the books, “Hands of Light” and “Light Emerging”.  It was there that I studied and eventually taught this amazing transformational work. Because I could see the benefits of Energy Therapy as well as working a program to help the Awakening process,  I then studied the advance course for an additional 4 years. I soaked all of it in so that I could share these techniques with others.  Brennan Healing Science® is a comprehensive program that teaches students to become compassionate healers to serve others on their path. And now- I like to incorporate this healing modality into my Craniosacral Therapy and Structural Integration sessions.  It is a gentle hands-on healing process that has helped thousands of people across the world.

Reiki

Reiki Energy Healing

In addition to Reiki, Brennan Healing Science®,  while I was living in Florida, my friend Joann Rahl, introduced me to the http://www.seraphimblueprint.com.  At first I didn’t think that is would be much with all my other training.  But I still went, and was pleasantly surprised.  It felt wonderful to sit in and receive the energetic initiations.  I felt new frequencies opened up that I have added to my healing work through intention.

While this has been my path in studying and implementing energy healing, there are many other schools that are second generation, and are very appropriate to healing what is going on now here on earth. 

I will say,  that my experience has shown me over and over that we are energy being, with human energy fields.  When we can align our auric fields, we can find deeper balance and move through life more effortlessly.

If you have an interest in Energy Healing,  please go out and investigate.  There is something waiting to help you open up the door. 

Blessings,

Sharon Hartnett LMT, SI, CST, Brennan Healing Science®

740 966-5153

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

 

 

Barbara Brennan School Practitioner

Barbara Brennan School Practitioner

Have you heard of the Barbara Brennan School of Healing?

If not, you have missed out on this generations’s wave of Energy Healing that has been incorporated into so many new healing practices across the globe. The School’s many graduates are working in many countries bringing about positive transformation and healing. This may show up as an individual’s journey, using techniques in the workplace, working with clients in a practice, through teaching others, to writing books and influencing others on a large scale. Whatever the case, this school has changed the face of the world in which we live. This work has opened our minds and hearts to a new vision.

The Barbara Brennan School became most popular in the 1990’s. Pioneered by Dr. Barbara Ann Brennan, the schools foundations were initiated by a group of well trained teachers taught under this gifted healer. She would guide them and share her meditations and guidance to bring more awareness to the Human Energy Field and how to heal. For many years she did School Healings and Channeled “Seeds of Spirit”. Thousands of healers have received instruction and have taken this transformational energy healing work out into the world to do good.

Energy Healing in Columbus Ohio

Barbara Brennan Columbus

Healing through the Human Energy Field

Barbara Brennan
Her “Hands of Light” book sold in the millions. Students flocked to her school with different hopes, but with a common intention to heal and bring healing to world.

In the late 1990’s I was one of the many who finally made it to the doorstep of the school up in New York. It was an exciting time because I had finally found a teaching that made sense to me. The four dimensions that are still taught in the book are based on a variety of old teachings and were brought into a cohesive text that is easily teachable for those ready to learn and to grow. Over my first four years there, I read that book and other materials over and over as the skills were taught. My life experiences opened up and my conscious perspective on life shifted dramatically. I learned to perceive the energy field through my vision, sensing and empathy. Sometimes, my experiences of Higher Sense Perception expanded to hearing sounds, music, and guidance. Finally, this reaching beyond with knowing became a natural part of my daily life. One might think that this was a special thing, but I looked around and could see the rest of my peers becoming more present and awake too. It was and adventure to be at the Barbara Brennan school with all my fellow visionaries. We had all come together with a purpose and a plan of some sort to bring meaning into our lives and make an impact on the world.

After four years under my belt, I decided to go back and study two more years in the advance work, and another two years to do Supervision. The energy of the school and the profound changes within the community and how it touched others urged me forward. In my own healing practice, the focus of my work changed depending on where I was focused in the moment. Most recently, my gears have shifted from the energy work to the Awakening Skills mixed with Craniosacral Therapy. Most importantly, all the wonderful tools I learned about characterology, holding a healing response, chelations, hara, and Core Start taught me how to help others to align with fulfilling their optimal health and manifesting true change. I found that one of the best ways to feel good about oneself is to be able to find meaning in relationship. In the healer-client relationship, one always centers first. But thereafter, the focus is on the client and moving out of the way to allow the work to unfold. The mystery of the energy work removes blocks and allows the field to renew and re-energize. Clients often get up at the end of a session and know that something important has happened. It’s a joy to be part of the process of helping others.

Since the turn of the millennium, many schools have popped up that are also quite good at teaching energy dynamics. But there is a special place for me in my heart where I studied and taught on the Faculty at the Barbara Brennan School of Healing. It was there that a community of ongoing people have and are still creating a healing thread that impacts the earth in so many ways. With each person’s individual gift, something incredible and fantastic happens. Even now, as I supervise students, I am aware of the movement the soul that happens there. I am gladdened by the way this is passed forward.

Even though I have studied many courses/trainings since, I still like to recommend the Barbara Brennan School to people who are interested in learning a thorough curriculum of healing and transformation. There is no other place like this that I have ever seen or witnessed.

I have been so blessed for my teachers and friends that I met there too. The Sacred Vessel of the Barbara Brennan School is a place where you will rediscover Who You Are and how to move toward living in your full potential.

If you have any questions about the school or this work, please contact me any time, Sharon Hartnett LMT 740 966-5153

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

 

Questions about Massage Therapy

Questions about Massage Therapy

The most frequently asked question I receive from clients is…

“How often should I come see you for massage therapy treatments?”

To be honest, one of the reasons I became a massage therapist was because many years ago, my best friend Karen practiced on me while she was in massage school for two hours once or twice a week and I got hooked.  She had the most warm and embracing hands that melted everything in my body and soul.  I unwound and felt so happy and peaceful afterwards.  It was like living on cloud 9 with my body feeling very grounded at the same time.  She had the touch of an angel, and I felt so embodied and centered after our sessions.

It wasn’t until a couple years later, when I moved from Colorado to Ohio, that I actually took the plunge myself and dove into the Massage school curriculum at a Massage School in Akron, Ohio.  Even then,  I was quite surprised to find myself there as it was the last thing I expected as a career choice for myself years before.  But the touch, and the healing was wonderful, and I knew that I was right where I needed to be more than any doubts that showed up.  So- if I am asked how often should a client receive massage, I’d most often recommend as often as possible as long as it feels therapeutic and it is in your budget. Massage Therapy feels great and helps you to let go of stress and tension which is not healthy for you.  When you find the right massage therapist for you and form a deep relationship of holding and healing, your essence and light breaks through so you can be your best. That’s how I view it for myself, and the clients that I see.

With that said,  once the above is determined, I like to remind clients and potential massage clients that if you are living in chronic pain or feel  an acute pain condition that has just come about, that it takes time for the body to heal.  The physical world does not mend as quickly as we are able to skip over to a new thought.  Biological healing is a process that unfolds with care and connection. And in most cases, pain situations are an accumulation of many factors including:  postural imbalances, habitual patterns of movement, stress, emotional issues,  sports injuries, birth traumas, challenges taking in a healthy diet,  toxins in our environment, along with other dysfunctional interactions we have in life. So with all that goes into creating a painful situation, it is necessary to balance out with receiving quality care, and allowing the body to repair and self-correct after treatments.  Don’t put your stock into a one time fix, although many times these types of miracles can occur to resolve pain relief. In most cases, more work is needed to help the body restore itself to its natural healthy state for the long-run.  If you want the honest answer to the question “how many massage sessions do I need to come in for”, the answer is that it depends on your commitment to feeling well and doing whatever it takes to accomplish that.  And- healing is a unique and different experience for each person and each relationship.

Massage Therapist

Massage Columbus

In my practice, I have some clients that come a few times a year for a tune-up or for when they are feeling out of whack, and I have clients who come once or twice a week until things turn around.  When clients are specifically interested in the Structural Integration for better alignment and pain relief, I follow a ten session recipe as prescribed by Dr. Ida Rolf for optimal postural re-education results. If the client is experiencing a bulging disk or nerve pain, sometimes it’s best to get a chiropractic adjustment, and wait a day or two for your massage and bodywork. Once the bones are stable, the fascia and other soft tissue needs to be released to help the client to stand straighter in better form.  Massage is focused on soft-tissue.  Craniosacral Therapy is a fantastic modality of work that directly works with the cerebrospinal fluid surrounding the brain and spine.  It is a tremendous therapy for helping clients with structural issues also, although with a light touch.  Wonderful benefits has been experienced with conditions like anxiety, stress, ADHD, fibromyalgia,  neck and back pain and headaches and more.  Clients who can’t fall asleep at night often fall asleep on the table because they are so relaxed.  It may take a few sessions, but slowly the nervous system balances and learned to heal in many cases.

Personally, as I have been working in this field almost 17 years, I have more recently kept most of the focus in my practice on myofascial therapy including Craniosacral Therapy,  and Structural Integration (as taught by Dr. Ida Rolf).  I also include mindful exploration of the mind, body and spirit connection for those who are interested.  I have a background in Brennan Healing Science (graduate at former faculty as the Barbara Brennan School of Healing), Reiki, and I like to include my trauma background and Hakomi practice as well into my work.  I find that when people come into the massage office, that they are best served by being held in the sacred space of healing and health.  However that stress is showing up,  my office is a confidential place where everything can be as it is without new conflict or distraction.  Because I personally enjoy working with Somato-Emotional Release and with people hoping to find pain relief from previous trauma, I usually like to see clients once a week on an ongoing basis until they feel good.  My preference is to work with people who are commitment to feeling well.  They get the best results because they see deeper that a session or two for a quick fix.  And my hope is that I am doing the best job to help them so that at some point they can stop, or take long breaks until they could use either some proactive massage therapy or they are feeling uncomfortable again.

It’s important to mention that each massage therapist has his/her own unique style.  Each client is organized in his/her own way.  While a massage therapist can hold space, we are not licensed as psychotherapists.  But many of us have had training in dialogue, wellness, coaching, and spiritual healing.  If you are committed to unfolding into your presence and health, consider a long-term relationship with your massage therapist and any other type of therapist you would want on your healing team.  There are so many possible stresses in the world, we all can use a helping hand at some time.  And we all deserve to be happy and feel our best!

Sometimes, I think we forget to treat ourselves well and we give all the excuses in the world to not give ourselves the quiet and nourishment we need.

Wishing you a sacred and beautiful day.

Sharon Hartnett LMT, CST, SI, Brennan Healing Science Practitioner.

740 966-5153

Lighten Up Therapies

Serving the Columbus, Ohio Area

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

www.upledger.com

 

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Feeling Stressed Out?

Feeling Stressed Out?

Feeling stressed out by life?

Everyone feels stressed out at least occasionally. Through all of life’s cycles, growth opportunities pop up presenting us with challenges that push against our boundaries. This can make us feel uncomfortable or stressed out. Fortunately, many of us have had positive influences that have  taught us how to navigate through rather difficult times efficiently.  But when we don’t know how to cope well any longer,  then what?  Is it possible to take these stresses and turn them around to make ourselves better?

We have to remember that if we change our perspectives about our difficulties,  the rest of the energy supporting the stress will shift too.
Craiosacral Therapy

Craniosacral Therapy relieves stress.

Remember that:

  • Overload is just about how we perceive a certain situation.
  • The way our bodies habitually respond to stress can be re-organized into a healthier response.
  • We are in charge of how we interact with the world in which we live.

Anything that you believe poses a threat to your way of being can cause stress.  So how does your mind, body and spirit let go of any ideas of danger?

  1. Being mindful of your own experience is a good place to begin. By bringing attention to both your internal and external environment, you will begin to see what ignites stress. Some of the physiological signs might be: slower digestion, heart rate rises, muscles contract, breathing quickens, and it may be difficult to sleep.  While you are experiencing the thought and the energy behind the stress, be curious and observant.  This is a good way to practice meditation.
  2. Receiving massage and bodywork has been shown to reduce stress, including modalities such as Craniosacral Therapy, Trigger Point, Structural Integration and the light moving touch of Swedish as well.  Feeling deeply into the body re-educates how we think and helps us re-route into a more relaxed and calm state of being.
  3. Body centered psychotherapies can be very helpful as well.  For example, Hakomi is based on peaceful methods of bringing awareness to your experience and trying on different perspectives.  This can give you new ways to view life down to the cellular level. This therapy is different than typical talk therapy as the main focus is bringing attention to the body to open the doorway to your consciousness.
  4. Physical Exercise pumps up your endorphins. Stress melts away. A good workout helps you to feel healthier and feel more alive.
  5. Deep breathing can help slower the heart rate and decrease your blood pressure.  A commitment to yoga practice will certainly give you opportunities to experience stress relief.
  6. Aromatherapy with oils from Young Living Oils or Doterra can help you to relax in a nice bath or with a foot massage before you go to sleep.  The intention of using the oils for health and good self-care can be very helpful if you are feeling anxious or imbalanced.
  7. Finding a good chiropractor who works with stability as well as flexibility can do wonders in helping you feel better aligned.  When the spine is healthy, life looks a lot more positive!
  8. Byron Katie has come up with 4 questions that will help you change your life.  Her worksheets are free online and you can view her on Youtube.  Check out www.thework.com.
  9. Gentle movement exercises like Felderkrais or Continuum will awaken your deeper sense of centeredness.
  10. Eckhart Tolle is known for bringing out focus “Into the Now”.  His teachings can help one to let go of suffering and stress by recognizing our tendencies to live in the past and future rather than being Present.

Remember that If stress is interfering with your life’s purpose and health, it’s time to do something different that will help you resource your internal skills to help you move through life with more ease.  There are practices you can do alone, in a class, or with the help of a professional.  The more serious the issue with anxiety, panic attacks, PTSD it is best to find the right professional with good experience and references.

Let your stress pass right through by taking good care of you.

Sharon Hartnett LMT, CST, SI

(740) 966-5153

Facilitating with Craniosacral Therapy, Myofascial Release, Structural Integration, Reiki, The Work, Brennan Healing and more.   See www.massageincolumbusohio.com for more information.

 

 

 

Somato-Emotional Release

Somato-Emotional Release

What is Somato-Emotional Release (SER)?

SER begins with an atmosphere of trust, respect, and gentle touch.

Often when I work with clients for a period of time, long-held negative beliefs and residual trauma energy can start to come to surface.  This may be a small gentle reminder of an uncomfortable feeling, a tear running down a cheek or a deep anxiety or stress that has energetically been frozen within the cells. We call this an “energy cyst from a Craniosacral Therapy perspective.  The energy from the historic trauma isolates itself as a compensation but it not entirely let go.

The Upledger  Craniosacral approach to working with Somato-Emotional Release involves a very natural type of presence and touch into the Cranosacral system that supports the process of releasing old trauma’s such as:  car accidents, PTSD, warfare, violence, divorce or any type of experience that feels overwhelming.  If the cycle of feelings does not complete itself, it remains until given the opportunity to heal.  By dialoguing with the Craniosacral System, the true intelligence within will lead the way to self-correct into health and wellbeing.  Craniosacral Therapy is a professional therapeutic modality that balances, restore and brings greater awareness to clients.

Craniosacral Columbus Ohio

Craniosacral Columbus

The old painful messages melt away and give way to the Present moment.

By taking the road of self-discovery with CST, new awareness will help you to make better choices in your life with more clarity and heart.  Bringing the physical, feelings, beliefs and heart into coherence opens the door to health and wellbeing.

Sharon Hartnett CST, LMT, SI & Brennan Healing Science Practitioner

(740) 966-5153

 

 

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